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Singing to Your Baby May Matter More Than You Think

From brain development to relationship-building, music shapes how young children learn, connect and interact with the world.

For Carnegie Hall鈥檚 Lullaby Project, new and expecting parents team up with professional artists to write and sing personal lullabies to their babies. (Photo by Chris Lee)

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In a large room inside a Methodist church in a residential neighborhood, infants and toddlers sit in their caregivers鈥 laps, awaiting the start of their Tuesday morning music class. 

Everyone鈥檚 shoes are off. Each family has found a spot on the rug, forming a circle. An 8-month-old girl squeals and claps her hands 鈥 a skill she鈥檇 picked up just a few days earlier 鈥 as she bounces up and down. All eyes are on the teacher, Alyson Hayes-Myers, awaiting her notes on the piano, which will signal that class has begun.

Over the next 45 minutes, an otherwise bare room comes alive with sound and feeling. All seven babies are engrossed in Hayes-Myers鈥 direction and movement, in the songs, in the close interactions the program encourages between them and the adult who brought them. 

Research is clear about the myriad benefits of music in early childhood. It can support , , and . It and . It can strengthen relationships and expose students to languages and customs from other parts of the world. 

In Hayes-Myers鈥 class, the evidence of the links between music and early development that are found in scientific studies come to life. In the presence of children who are singing or being sung to, who are listening to instruments or playing the instruments themselves, the brain development is obvious 鈥 and the joy is infectious.

Her class is in week four of a 10-week session that invites children from birth to age 4 to participate with a caregiver 鈥 often a parent, but sometimes a grandparent or nanny. It鈥檚 located in Denver, Colorado, at Twinkle Together, a licensed center of Music Together, which is an early childhood music and movement program with locations in over 2,000 communities across 35 countries.聽

Music Together鈥檚 classes host young children of mixed ages for 45-minute classes that are meant to inspire a love of music that will last throughout their lives. (Courtesy of Music Together Worldwide)

The program is designed for children, but the target audience may actually be their caregivers, explained Karee Justice-Bondy, director of Denver鈥檚 five Music Together locations. 鈥淧arents are key,鈥 she said. 鈥淭hey are really our students, not the children. We know children love music.鈥

So many parents today, Justice-Bondy added, are inundated with information about how best to raise their children, and they end up ignoring their own intuition about how to parent, love and play with their little ones. 

鈥淭his can help remind you,鈥 she said of music. 

It can be empowering for families to engage with music, creating opportunities for them to bond and grow together. Many initiatives around the country, including Music Together, are trying to help parents and caregivers tap into that. 

Carnegie Hall鈥檚 is another program designed to leverage the power of music in early childhood. The Lullaby Project pairs new and expecting parents with professional artists to write personal lullabies for their babies. The project began almost 15 years ago in partnership with a New York hospital 鈥 music was identified as a tool to improve maternal mental health and well-being while strengthening bonds between parent and child 鈥 but has since reached families across the globe, in spaces such as refugee camps, opioid recovery centers and neonatal intensive care units, according to Tiffany Ortiz, director of early childhood programs at the Weill Music Institute, an education arm of Carnegie Hall. 

Carnegie Hall鈥檚 Lullaby Project, launched nearly 15 years ago, aims to reducing parental stress and strengthen bonds between babies and caregivers. (Courtesy of Carnegie Hall)

The Lullaby Project worked so well, Ortiz said, that families began asking, 鈥淲hat鈥檚 next?鈥 In response, staff at Carnegie designed and built out additional for young children and their caregivers, including , a free 10-week music class for infants and toddlers up to 18 months old. 

Carnegie Hall鈥檚 Big Note, Little Note program invites infants and young toddlers to participate in free themed music sessions with their caregivers each week for 10 weeks. (Photo by Richard Termine)

鈥淧eople think of Carnegie Hall and these very polished performances, big stages,鈥 Ortiz said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 really these micromoments and the way music can be used every day. 鈥 We really are trying to empower families to feel really confident in their music-making, to bolster that bond.鈥

After Big Note, Little Note music sessions, many families have shared with program leaders that they leave more confident in their music-making abilities and comfortable weaving songs and movement throughout their child鈥檚 day. (Courtesy of Carnegie Hall)

It鈥檚 working, she said. Parents and caregivers have shared with Ortiz that, after participating in a music program, they find themselves singing and making music throughout the day with their child 鈥 often during times of transition that can be challenging, such as brushing teeth, mealtime and bedtime. Music takes those tough moments and turns them into something fun and playful, Ortiz recalled families saying. 

鈥淥ften, music and music experiences are put on a shelf as a nice-to-have,鈥 Ortiz noted. 鈥淚t can be a really powerful tool in early development, but it can also help parents and families navigate the more stressful parts of early childhood. I鈥檝e seen it transform so many people鈥檚 lives and create a sense of meaning and connection with a child.鈥

Dennie Palmer Wolf, principal researcher at WolfBrown, an arts research firm that has collaborated with the Weill Music Institute to its early childhood music programs, thinks of music as one of a few 鈥渘atural resources鈥 every family has (laughing and physical closeness are among the others, she said).

鈥淚t can potentially give parents a sense of being effective or capable,鈥 she said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 a source of strength and resilience, in a world that takes that away, grinds it down.鈥

Of course, this only works if parents are comfortable singing, and many are not. 

Ann C. Kay, co-founder of The Rock 鈥榥鈥 Read Project, which leverages music for early literacy, believes that shows like American Idol and The Voice have convinced adults that if they can鈥檛 sing well, they should not bother to sing at all. 

鈥淭here鈥檚 all these messages in our culture now that you鈥檙e going to be embarrassed if you open your mouth and sing,鈥 Kay said. 

Susan Darrow, CEO of Music Together Worldwide, made a similar point. Many people now feel that unless they 鈥渟ound like Lady Gaga, they should sit in the audience and listen.鈥澛

鈥淭hat might be fine for our culture, but it鈥檚 a disaster for early childhood,鈥 Darrow said. 鈥淚 would love to be able to return music-making to the amateurs. 鈥 We want to raise children who are not afraid to sing.鈥

That starts at home, where the only judge is a benevolent one: To a baby, the most beautiful singing voice is that of their parent or caregiver, regardless of that adult鈥檚 ability to carry a tune. 

鈥淲e鈥檙e not trying to raise the next Yo-Yo Ma,鈥 Darrow added. 鈥淲e鈥檙e trying to raise children who love and participate in music.鈥

Beyond the benefits to parents, Palmer Wolf expounded on the way that music helps with children鈥檚 social-emotional development. When young children are singing and dancing together, they have an awareness of music stopping and starting, of taking turns, of getting quieter and louder, of imitating sound and movement, of self-regulation. 

鈥淚t鈥檚 an opportunity for kids to learn that your face, your hands, your eyes, your whole body says something to others,鈥 Palmer Wolf said. 

And music can communicate messages far beyond the lyrics of a song, she added. Palmer Wolf has been studying the role of music in some preschools in Boston that have a growing immigrant population, she said, and she鈥檚 found that culturally-relevant songs can signal to families that they are welcome in the community. When preschools use music in that way, it helps to build a sense of trust among families who might otherwise be wary, she added. 

鈥淲e can鈥檛 underplay the signaling power of music,鈥 she said. 

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