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For ‘Happiness-Oriented Parents,’ It’s Not All About the Academics

Roda & Makris: Our research shows these privileged families can have a broad impact beyond their own children 鈥 on school climate and even integration

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A recent from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention about the severe mental health crisis among America’s youth, , sparked widespread debate about how to better support the country鈥檚 young people and prevent suicide in this vulnerable population. Among the top resources laid out by the CDC researchers are schools, given the important link between feelings of school connectedness and mental health.

As education scholars who have spent over a decade in three cities talking to parents about their school choices, we found that a surprisingly large number are aware of and considering social-emotional factors in their decisions. Usual narratives about school choice focus on privileged parents seeking out prestigious academic environments for their children from a young age, whether in the form of selective public schools or programs, private options or an affluent suburban district. These choices have been tied to increasing school segregation across the country.

But in our , we found a racially diverse group of privileged parents seeking urban schools that prioritize their child鈥檚 happiness. We identified this group of “happiness-oriented parents” using a qualitative meta-analysis of seven studies we and several colleagues conducted over the last decade. Examining interviews with families conducted during that research helped us to draw out similarities, demonstrating this phenomenon across geographies, communities and time frames.

In those interviews, we found this group of parents prioritized factors outside of academic rigor, saying they were looking for schools that were 鈥渉appy and comfortable,鈥 鈥渉appy and grounded鈥 or 鈥渘ot too academic,鈥 and where 鈥渆ach child is known by a teacher.鈥 Our findings over the last decade are aligned with a recent that found mental health was parents鈥 leading concern for their children in 2022. 

In contrast to research that emphasizes or test scores as indicators of a school鈥檚 desirability, happiness-oriented parents use a wider lens in describing what a 鈥済ood school鈥 looks like. Many are even willing to buck the trend in choosing a different type of school from their peers. What this happiness orientation looks like varies across families 鈥 some avoid schools perceived to be too academically competitive, while others prioritize racial/ethnic inclusivity, an alternative pedagogy, a special theme, outdoor time, arts, individualized attention, ease of commute or social-emotional learning. 

These parents often emphasized that they sought schools where their children could develop qualities beyond standard academic skills, like a love of learning, confidence, social interactions or an interest in the arts. Many parents told us test scores don鈥檛 tell the whole story about a school鈥檚 quality and that they believed rankings and perceived rigor mattered less than relationships, racial representation and school climate.

Taken together, happiness-oriented parents鈥 school choices could have a broader impact beyond their own children. In downplaying academically competitive criteria (which often align with schools that are disproportionately white and/or high-income), these families are in some cases willing to consider a wider and potentially more racially and socioeconomically diverse set of schools. This could aid in school integration efforts and . These parents could with students, educators and advocates for social justice and integration, or at least not actively oppose these efforts. More broadly, happiness-oriented parents prioritize a welcoming school environment, happy and content students, and loving teachers and school staff; if administrators and policymakers focused more on these aspects of schooling, it would improve the educational experiences of children across the board.

In terms of integration alone, however, happiness-oriented parents may not always be partners in these efforts, since for some, diversity was more of a by-product of their choice than a central factor in their decision-making. Moreover, because their focus is on their children鈥檚 individual happiness, even parents with a stated openness to choosing diverse settings may cause harm by existing families in a school or exercising the privilege of their choices by moving their kids when they are unhappy. 

As the mental health crisis among children comes into clearer focus, education policymakers and leaders should take happiness into greater account by supporting schools that prioritize equity, strong student relationships, creativity and social emotional well-being 鈥 criteria that are good for all students. This could create a path toward more welcoming, inclusive and racially integrated schools while addressing one of the biggest crises facing America鈥檚 young people today. 

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